Mother and mother-in-law troubles!makes me want to run off and have my baby in the woods by myself!lol?

With my first my mom wanted to name my baby. I already had a name for her. Well while I was doped up and in labor she talked me into changing her middle name to what she wanted. Now with my son she wants to name him to, and she said if I won't take the first name she likes then I "have" to give him the middle name. I said u got to name my daughter( middle name) becuase she was acting like she didn't get to do anything.this is starting to make me mad. Now I fought her on my daughter up untill I went into labor and she messed with me while I was having her untill I gave in! I'm scared she will do the same with my son. So I told my hubby I wasent sure if she should be in the room and he said his mom was. He said she said since my mom was in there first time it is her turn! I feel like a cattle show here! I told my hubby, first when was someone going to ask me, second what made them think that was ok with me. I'm very private I don't want his mom in there! But I'm worried about my mom to! I told him I was about to tell the dr I didn't want anyone in there not even him. But he said there would be a fight between them in the hospital(mom and mil). His mom has her own daughter, can't she wait untill she has babies? I should just opt to be by myself hu!