GLBT people only please. All others may kindly ignore this post, thanks.?

Waverly I dont know if this will answer your question or not but here goes. My father wasnt a bigot but my mother was. my father said to me that when you leave the family home to be with someone whoever it be, then that is your new family and you should always work together to be happy. He said you will loose some of the family ( if you are straight or gay ) because you will always have one or two that dont like your partner or lifestyle. He said to me it doesnt matter to me who you go with, you are always mine even though you have your own family, if you ever need any advice or help come to me and I will do what I can to help. He knew I was going to change my gender. The point I am trying to make Waverly is that you may loose your dad and it may make you sad but do you have to spoil your own life because of one bigoted person, if he thinks so little that he cant let his baby girl enjoy her life he is not worth worrying over.